Funny coincidences and chances taken

H and I found the local Peet’s coffee downtown (Aaaaah, Peet’s). I needed to get me some coffee beans – Safeway by us has peets in bags but I needed it straight from the source, and I also wanted to check out the local store to me.

So’s I go in and behind the bean counter is this amazingly hot guy (ok, easy to find in Portland). I notice him looking at me a bit, don’t know why, so I thought “hm. interesting.” I maneuver so that he will be serving my bean counter request and he asks me, “So, is this you first time in Peet’s?” A strange question, no? I say “this Peet’s, yes, but I’ve been to others.” He says “Where?” I say “In the bay area, I just moved.” He says “Where from?” I say “Petaluma.” He says ” Heh, I just moved from Petaluma in Oct.” Funny coincidence.

So perhaps he was looking at me because I looked familiar, or maybe there was more. We leave and I agonize over not saying more or giving info or anything, so after a bit of retail therapy (found this amazing shearling denim coat at fossil for CHEAP), I gird my loins, go back to the store and give him my phone and email address, if he ever wants to hang out or anything (seeing as it is a funny coincidence that we are from Petaluma, and how I don’t know a lot of people in the area)

So that’s the first time I gave an anonymous cute boy my contact info out of the blue. I played it cool, but damn was I nervous.

And I’m not looking for anything either, just to have another friend to hang with or chat, fun and all – My gaydar is broken likely anyway, heh. It doesn’t matter to me *too* much if he doesn’t call or anything — I’m still basking in my courage to actually do something that I wanted, the fact that I overcame my fear. Yay me.

13 Replies to “Funny coincidences and chances taken”

  1. Yet another good thing about Portland: coffee shops riddled with cute baristas of any gender you can imagine. =) You’re a stud!

    By the way, Hawthorne Coffee and Tea (on Hawthorne, as you may have been able to deduce) beats all fucking hell out of Peets for coffee-to-take-home. No cute baristas, though. Huge tea selection. No, I don’t work for them. =)

  2. You go boy-ee!

    and I thought I was underdeveloped for not yet doing that at the tender age of 24.

  3. Kick ass and take names, and the world shall be your oyster. Or something. =D Nay, I can gleek upon occasion!

  4. Well, if can compete with Peet’s quality, I guess I’ll win on both counts, then, eh?

    I also buy loose tea (black, mostly) from Peet’s so I’ll have to check out this Hawthorn Coffee and Tea.

  5. I always get the best service! Why?

    1. I am polite even in the face of poor or accidental poor service
    2. I am empathetic to services staff and understanding
    3. I always tip well

    It’s amazing how this behaviour turns bad experiences into good ones. (and you get extra stuff and make friends, too)

  6. I have never been able to screw up the courage to do that. And I doubt I ever will. My compliments, my dear friend, on your achievement 🙂

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